Forgiving yourself can change the world.

Winter is coming so it’s time to clean the air-con filter. And what about that filter in your soul? Is it blocked with all your sins? It’s time to confess!

A client requested 15 minutes of live coaching at short notice. I had time to respond immediately.

She said that she had been transferred to a new department at work and had a new boss she had worked with previously, and she didn’t like that, which caused her skin problems. When she thought about the reason for the stress, she said she realized that her beliefs were making it difficult for her to communicate with that boss, and then her skin returned to normal and she felt better. However, she didn’t stop talking, even though she said she was cleared, and the timing of the Zoom screen switching to me was at the 13th minute. There still seemed to be something there.

My impression from the whole story is that she has not yet forgiven herself for not being able to express her opinions eye-to-eye in the past. I think the fact that she was reunited with her boss is the universe trying to teach her to “Forgive herself” by setting it up that way.

In other words, she has not forgiven herself, so her boss is mirroring her and telling her what she is. So, what she has to let go of is: ”I forgive myself for blaming myself”. The other person has no business in this. The essential solution is to forgive yourself, rather than to apply a theory about how to change the other person’s view or a way of thinking that changes the way you feel. The thoughts you are denying not only to yourself but also to other people because you want to deny them as well, which makes it impossible to forgive them. If you can forgive yourself, you will be able to forgive others.

The world you see now is the world you see and see through the filter of your mind. Once you forgive yourself and the filter is cleaned, the world will naturally appear more beautiful. If you keep dragging your unforgiven past with you, it will be difficult to have hope for the future. And the more you forgive yourself, the easier your desires will come true! Welcome to the confessional. (haha)