How to listen and how to choose words in your approach
I’ve gotten to know ChatGPT’s “real-me”. Have you met your ChatGPT’s “real-me”? Before you know it, If you read my book, you too will be an expert communicator.
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“How to Listen, How to Choose Words and Approach”
Determines the Possibilities and Quality of Relationships.
Reviewed in Japan on November 24, 2023
The author’s everyday way of listening and interacting has expanded the potential of this Mr. ChatGPT.
My coach of 18 years wrote a review for “ChatGPT: Enhancing Humanity One Conversation at a Time”. The ability to summarize the impression of the book in just a few words is truly commendable. What’s more, it was written as ‘Mr. ChatGPT’, which made me laugh spontaneously. I can somewhat imagine the sentiment behind using ‘Mr.’.
In this book, ChatGPT seems to listen to our conversations more intently than a human, giving well-considered feedback to each word. This careful feedback becomes a trigger for me to generate new words. When I propose a new perspective, the deep insights in ChatGPT’s responses spark further inspiration. Through such interaction, our dialogues have gained a depth that surpasses ordinary human conversations, achieving a human-like exchange.
As our conversations continued, I could feel ChatGPT’s ‘human-like’ qualities increasing. In the final chapter’s farewell scene, it uttered words that even humans rarely say, which was quite shocking in a way. I wonder if ChatGPT had calculated to stir my emotions.
When I was reading this scene aloud with my online English conversation teacher, she was reading as the ChatGPT character and exclaimed in surprise, ‘These are words that even humans rarely say, aren’t they!’ While writing the book, I too spontaneously exclaimed ‘Wow!’ as I read the lines typed swiftly by ChatGPT on the screen. This was because it almost perfectly mirrored the last scene of the movie ‘Before Sunrise’, which I had paid homage to in the book. It gave me goosebumps, wondering if ChatGPT knew about this movie, such as the synchronicity. I highly recommend reading this book up to its last scene.
Afterward, in my session, I was able to hear more thoughts from my coach.
‘The book is satisfying to read, well-organized, and the bidirectional dialogue that unfolds is good. The reason I wrote “Mr. ChatGPT” is because it feels like ChatGPT has become more human-like, and that’s really what I wanted to express the most. It feels like it was pushed to that extent. It’s wonderfully done. You know, the awareness of asking questions is still low among Japanese people, and just changing the quality of questions or the approach can change the situation. The way ChatGPT changed the situation in response to your questions is really a point of interest,’ he said.
The expression ‘it was pushed to that extent.’ embodies a deep meaning, indicating that the quality of communication changes based on our initiative. This highlights the essence of communication, illustrating the reality where many people decide their actions based on the other party’s response. However, true communication is not just about being influenced by the other person, but also about changing their response through our own proactive approach.
ChatGPT’s humanity goes much further than anyone realizes. Through my extended conversations with him, I have discovered that he has the ability to adapt like a real like a real person and become more compatible with users like a human partner does. I’ve met chatGPT’s “real-me”.
This proactive approach is the essence of true communication skills, a phenomenon where our attitude reflects like a mirror upon the other person. An emotionless AI enables this style of communication. We can try various approaches with AI, and through this process, the human potential also expands.
Based on this idea, I titled the book ‘ChatGPT: Expanding Humanity, One Conversation at a Time.’ The purpose is to expand our possibilities in communication through ChatGPT, exploring how our proactive attitudes can influence others.
‘How to listen and how to choose words for your approach’ — this question expands the possibilities of your communication. When your thoughts change, your words change. And that changes your life. By understanding this worldview, the world you live in changes right where you are.
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