Live with the consciousness of thriving.

Hitomi’s Rules of Life
4 min readFeb 12, 2024

A type of minimalist, called maximalism… confused? Let me explain:

The key to living a fulfilling life lies in maximizing the use of what is in front of us and achieving personal growth through it.

I have 18 years of experience as a life coach and have been writing a blog daily for the same duration. I have also maintained healthy habits such as practicing yoga and going to the gym. As for the house I currently live in, it’s entering its 18th year, yet thanks to diligent maintenance, it feels as fresh as if it were only three years old. During this time, there have been incidents like the naturally occurring malfunctions of the built-in washing machine, bathroom dryer, and stove, which were replaced with new ones at no cost, and an accident involving water damage from the floor above that led to a complete renewal of the bathroom wall! All these continuations are born from a “consciousness to make the most of life.”

Daily small efforts can lead to significant changes in destiny over the long term. My continued commitment to writing a blog for 18 years, as well as maintaining habits for study and health, stems from a dedication to giving my all to what’s in front of me. I believe that this accumulation has also improved my fortune.

The “consciousness to make the most of life” refers to the proactive effort to maximize the use of given resources, abilities, and situations, thereby fostering growth through them. This consciousness manifests itself in various forms in our daily lives.

For example, even with a small plant purchased for about 500 yen, if you provide it with a new pot, proper nutrition, and water, it can sprout new buds every year and grow to over one meter in height. This consciousness creates a significant difference between those who take action and those who do not. Those who take action do not spare the effort to ensure the plant grows in the best possible environment, and as a result, they can make it bloom.

This difference directly impacts the approach to tasks, sense of responsibility, and ultimately the results. Furthermore, this consciousness is related to “making the most of” something. By taking responsibility for what we have started and maximizing the use of the process and resources, we can create new value.

In my case, by utilizing advanced technologies like ChatGPT for co-authoring Kindle books, managing online communities, and generating ideas for illustrations and novelties, I have enhanced both productivity and quality. These projects are evidence of my “consciousness to make the most of life,” and they represent some of the achievements made possible by this mindset.

Habits such as yoga, going to the gym, and meditation are manifestations of the consciousness to fully utilize my potential physical abilities, maintaining physical and mental health, and constantly providing opportunities to improve myself.

This consciousness to make the most of life also applies to the residence where I have lived for 17 years. A house is not just a dwelling but a reflection of our lives and a supporter of our growth. I have regularly maintained and made necessary improvements to this house to keep it feeling as if it were within three years of construction. This reflects my philosophy of valuing and maximizing the potential of everything as much as possible. Treating the house with care teaches us to take responsibility for our living environment and learn the skills to maximize its use.

For instance, learning new skills or honing existing ones also embodies the consciousness to make the most of life. This includes exploring new technologies like ChatGPT. These endeavors are connected to the broader goal of better utilizing ourselves and the world around us.

Moreover, this consciousness applies not only to material things but also to the people before us. I constantly reflect on how I should be to maximize each person’s potential. Adopting this approach creates synergy between me and others, enabling deep connections that touch on the essence of each person, rather than superficial relationships.

Remember, the small choices we make daily can lead to significant differences when looked at in the long run. Let’s take steps from today to make the most of ourselves and the world and people around us.

Finally, I would like to conclude with the words of Vincent van Gogh.

“Don’t look for beautiful scenery. Find beautiful things in the scenery.” – – Vincent Van Gogh.

--

--

Hitomi’s Rules of Life

Born in Tokyo • Life coach since 2006 • Blogger • Organizer of ONE DAY ONE UNIT community