Prepare yourself before your dreams come true.

“What you can achieve by yourself, you must achieve by yourself. Otherwise, other forces will not work.” This was the feedback from Hitomi’s Room session. I guess it’s like saying, “Do the best you can and wait for your destiny”.
However, many people thought in this way.

“I was surprised to hear you say that what you can achieve on your own, and that when you do that, other forces will come into play. I thought that there were times when I misunderstood the meaning of ”leave it to the universe“ and left things to the universe. That’s not going to happen. I’ve reflected on that.”

I also felt passive, like I was waiting for something to happen. I felt like I was waiting for someone to notice me. I thought someone would notice and say something. That’s not the power of a person, that’s just dependence.”

This is a misunderstanding of the Law of Attraction. When I started my own business, there were no Law of Attraction books yet, and I had never heard the phrase, so I took it for granted that I would make my own dreams come true. And I felt that if I did the best I could do, the universe would somehow help me.

However, the advent of the Law of Attraction has probably created a tendency to ‘just wish’. It is natural that if you just wait, no one will notice you. Just like you can’t lose weight just by wishing.

I changed my job from the food service industry to apparel because I had the goal of becoming a shop manager in my twenties. So, I told the boss at my job interview that I wanted to be a shop manager. I had no experience in apparel, so it was completely unpredictable when it would happen.

Then, on a paid holiday before I joined the company, I took advantage of a short stay in New York and stayed in New York for two weeks to do a store tour of apparel shops. I thought that since I was going to be a shop manager in the future, I should at least do a store tour of New York as a shop manager.

I did that, and within two months of joining the company, I was offered the shop manager position. I knew I was going to be a shop manager in the future, so I just did what I had to do early, but I couldn’t keep up with how fast things were developing.

I am still sending out messages in English, although no one has asked me to do so. The purpose is to become a life coach who pushes people all over the world. My work has already reached at least some English teachers. And I feel happy that they can sympathize with my work and that I have been able to offer them tips to change their perspectives. I believe that feeling is an order to the universe. Make your dreams come true as soon as you set them up. It is my job to support you in taking the first steps toward your dreams.