Suggestions can change your life.
Suggestions from your phone are useful, and suggestions from your friends and family are nice, but suggestions from the universe are LIFE CHANGING! The trick is to step out of your personal universe. Let’s kick off a new Big Bang for your YOU-niverse !
When I mentioned that I had made my street piano debut, my coach gave the following feedback. “You’re saying that you played it because the piano was there, not because you wanted to, but because the station there said, “ We have a piano there, so why don’t you play it here?” ‘, so the story is that you received the suggestion.
Right. It was a suggestion from the Universe. I am just receiving it. I am not actively trying to go and get it.
My coaching offers suggestions. I also enjoy receiving suggestions from others and creating unexpected futures. There is a rule that says ”coaches don’t give advice” but with my suggestions, I am creating the future. Coaching is a “future-creating dialogue”. It is up to the client to decide whether or not to accept my suggestions, but most clients do, and they meet their new selves.
However, many people believe too much that they have to think for themselves. It is natural that by taking suggestions from others, you can easily get out of your algorithm and create a new future based on different ideas than before.
However, most advice is an extension of suggestions from the past. So it sounds boring and I don’t want to do it. However, if it is a suggestion from the future, I would like to see the future if I do it. Other people will be interested in your changes. The suggestions I make in coaching are suggestions from the future. That’s why everyone is motivated.
I recently came across an amazing YouTube channel. It’s called “How a Homeless Man Became a Millionaire”. It is non-fiction. Amazingly, the channel has over 190,000 subscribers in three months. Everyone wants to see how a homeless man will become a millionaire.
The video starts with a 26-year-old man looking for a homeless person who is willing to become a Youtuber. He gets the chance to talk to a homeless man and asks him, “Would you like to be a YouTuber?” However, at first the homeless man felt negative and said, “Who would want to watch my YouTube?” So the young man politely explained the purpose of the project. In the end, he made him say, “I’ll give it one try”.
It was truly a suggestion from the future that suddenly came to him. The homeless man could monetize it within two months and his dream of going to Tokyo Disneyland came true.
It is important to empty yourself to be vacant enough to accept the suggestion in front of you honestly and your life will change.