There is no need to wish for it because it will happen.

Hitomi’s Rules of Life
3 min readOct 2, 2022

I wrote about my tarot reading experience in this week’s newsletter. I realized that the best use of divination is to realize that “There is something where I thought there was nothing.”

When I discussed this realization at the Osaka seminar, a participant summed up the idea like this.

At the Osaka seminar, I found out that if you think it’s there, it’s there, so I no longer have to wish for it to come true! So it became clear to me that I should go to the shrine to give thanks. I don’t go to a shrine to wish for something, but I go to a shrine to thank something, but to thank for it. It’s like going to thank for the fact that I don’t have to wish for something to come true.

That’s so deep.

I am the type of person who works on ”because it will happen” rather than ”wishing for it”. If you make a wish, you are making a wish because you can’t believe you can, and when you think you can’t, you keep believing you can’t.

Before I started my own business, I had a dream: “I want to live in a high-rise flat!” So when I was an apparel shop manager, I moved into a nine-story flat next to a high-rise flat. From my room, I had a good view of the floor where the concierge was stationed in the high-rise flat next door, and I thought to myself, “Someday I’ll live there too…”.

On my first day of starting my own business, I went to have my fortune read by a famous astrologer, who predicted that I would find a cheaper and more spacious apartment than I had expected in October. It was my first day of self-employment and I wasn’t sure if I would be able to make enough sales to afford a high-rise flat, but the astrologer told me that I would find one in October, so I thought, “I’ll find one!” I was told by my horoscope that I would find it in October, so it entered my subconscious mind.

So in October, I started looking for one online, but I couldn’t find one. I was planning a trip to New York, and just before my trip to New York I went to a hair salon and got a two-block cut and short hair. My hair looked like a New Yorker.

I took the ropeway around Midtown and was fascinated by the orange glow of Manhattan’s high-rise apartment buildings seen from the ropeway.

And when I returned home, I found the flat I’m in now! It was a banner I would never click on because it looked luxurious, but I accidentally clicked on it and found it. Now that I think about it, it seems like I was found by the vibes of Manhattan.

Once you decide that “it will happen”, acting on it becomes second nature. And the Universe will understand that it will happen and give you hints on how to get there.

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Hitomi’s Rules of Life

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