What is SHARE?

Hitomi’s Rules of Life
2 min readJul 17, 2022

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Let’s remember the true meaning of “Sharing” before it came to mean “Uploading to social media.”

Recently, we have been thinking about “SHARE” in the 1D1U community. People would probably think of something that moved them, sharing information or sharing experiences on social media sites.

The client I recently invited to be a driver at the shrine of money luck, gave a presentation during a 30-minute ZOOM lecture about “Shrine of money luck and SHARE.” It was very deep and I would like to share it here.

On the bus heading towards Fuji Station, a young man and woman were seated behind us. To my surprise, they chatted the whole way for about two hours. I said to my client. “They were talking about their friends the whole time.”

There was a moment when we were the only two people in the shrine of money luck. At that moment, I said out loud the wish I usually chant in my mind. Following me, she also said her wish aloud. Regarding this situation, she felt that the captain was enjoying the moment 110%.

She stayed at my house and I shared my favorite film “Before Sunrise” on the projector. The film depicts two people talking to each other the whole time. She said, “They were asking questions because they wanted to get to know the other person, and they were having a dialogue because they wanted the other person to get to know them.”

There was my daily online English conversation at 10 am. My client observed it, but the teacher spotted her on the edge of the screen and called her over to join us. And the teacher asked me, “Where are you going today?’ And I also asked her, “Guess what?” Seeing this, the client seemed surprised that the student was asking the teacher a question.

Then she experienced Dialogue in the Dark. She told me how she felt about the experience. “I realized that if I didn’t speak out, I wouldn’t exist”.

When I experienced Dialogue in the Dark, I was in a group of two people, but I didn’t feel that way because I felt that each person was a big part of the group. She probably felt the way she felt because it was a group session with seven people.

“SHARE”, in my opinion, means “the joy of feeling one’s presence and being connected to others”.

So “SHARING” means one-on-one communication that improves bonding and your sense of self,

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Hitomi’s Rules of Life
Hitomi’s Rules of Life

Written by Hitomi’s Rules of Life

Born in Tokyo • Life coach since 2006 • Blogger • Organizer of ONE DAY ONE UNIT community

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